My boyfriend told me I stank daily. When I finally learned the reason, I turned pale.
I’ve been with my boyfriend for over a year, and all was great except for ONE thing – every single day, at least once, he’d tell me that I STINK.
I showered every day and brushed my teeth three times a day every time we met. Eventually, I became so paranoid that I’d shower at least twice daily. I felt like I was going crazy.
Yesterday morning, he started his song again, and I said: “That’s it, we should break up then.”
He immediately got all panicked, and I eventually GOT THE TRUTH OUT OF HIM…but it left me completely dumbfounded as to why he had been tormenting me with this accusation.
It was during one of our heated arguments about my alleged stench that he finally broke down and confessed the truth. I couldn’t believe what I was hearing.
“It’s not you,” he stuttered, his face flushed with embarrassment. “It’s… it’s your cat.”
“My cat?” I repeated, feeling a mix of confusion and disbelief.
He nodded, avoiding my gaze. “Yeah, your cat. Every time I come over, I can smell… cat odor. It’s really strong, and I thought it was… you.”
I sat there in stunned silence, trying to process what he had just said. My mind raced as I thought back to all the times he had accused me of smelling bad. It all made sense now. The real reason behind his constant complaints was my beloved feline friend.
I felt a surge of anger and frustration. How could he have let this go on for so long without telling me the truth? Instead of addressing the issue directly, he had chosen to blame me, causing unnecessary stress and anxiety.
But as I looked at him, I saw the guilt and regret in his eyes. He was genuinely sorry for not being honest with me sooner. And despite my initial shock, I couldn’t help but feel a wave of relief wash over me.
“Next time, just tell me the truth,” I said, my voice softer than before. “Communication is key in a relationship, you know.”
He nodded, looking relieved that I wasn’t angry with him. “I’m sorry, I should have said something earlier.”
I sighed, feeling a weight lift off my shoulders. It was a strange turn of events, but at least now I knew the truth. And as for my cat, well, I made a mental note to give her an extra thorough grooming session.
As we sat there, laughing at the absurdity of it all, I realized that even the most baffling problems can be solved with honesty and understanding. And while it might have taken a while to get to the bottom of this particular issue, I knew that our relationship was stronger for it.